The North PoL

"A wife is for life!"

I hate the idea of divorce and the way people go into marriage with an open door to get out whenever they want. It dissapoints me.

It's frustrating to know so many friends who's lives have been mixed up either by their own separation, or by their parents divorce. It's an awful legacy to leave a child, but an all too common scenario.

This is why God condemns divorce so intensely in the bible, not to judge or condemn people, but warn us away from the harmful consequences on generations of people. If it can be avoided in any plausible way then it should be.

So my motto which i'm speaking out is "A wife is for Life," i like to consciously remind myself i've made a committment which i cannot get out of. Everyone knows the wedding vows, that we agree to be together for better or worse, till death do us part, but they get treated like a romantic speech people make for the sake of tradition, as opposed to the reality that you are going to be with someone for the rest of your life.

If you believe in something then you speak it out. I will be with Joelle for life, and then re-connect and renew my vows with her in Heaven, because a wife is for life!